Let the Word strengthen you & your relationships

Can you have a discussion without it becoming an argument when talking with someone you disagree with?

“If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful, for he cannot deny who he is. Remind everyone about these things, and command them in God’s presence to stop fighting over words. Such arguments are useless, and they can ruin those who hear them. Work hard so you can present yourself to God and receive his approval. Be a good worker, one who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly explains the word of truth. Avoid worthless, foolish talk that only leads to more godless behavior.” 2 Timothy 2:13-16 (NLT)

Timothy was to remind his church, but we can also remind ourselves that no matter what God is faithful and if we sin, we need to immediately confess it, which includes repentance from it, and getting busy obeying God again, because if we are not walking loving and obeying we may find ourselves trying to prove ourselves rather than living godly and being used by God to draw people to Him.

Some things to help are:

1. Have a good personal relationship with Jesus where you know for sure you are saved and where God is either first in your life or being allowed to sanctify you in that direction.

2. Keep the things of this world in the proper perspective. The foolish worthless talk and other things of the world are not of central importance to you. You know that sound doctrine and an obedient heart will lead to right thinking and actions. Because your life is centered on Jesus, He will bring love and unity.

3. Be working in the ministry God has for you. All of us are called so share the Gospel and minister and disciple others. This does not mean you have to have to be a preacher but that you are obediently actively allowing God to use you to serve Him where you are. Also, as part of it, spend time in the Word with an open mind to God and accuracy of teaching, not "proving" your opinion or caught up in every new thing that comes along.

So, if you are being obedient and in a strong relationship with God, have the proper perspective on the things of this world and the things of the Spirit, and are being used by God in ministry then it will lead to more closeness, more unity, more sharing and more helping in other’s personal growth and ministry; you will find yourself daily being and becoming a great wife, husband, parent, child or whatever place God has you in.